Goal setting is a crucial aspect of personal and professional development. It helps us to identify our aspirations, create a roadmap for achieving them, and track our progress along the way. But setting goals is not always easy, and it’s important to follow some best practices to increase the chances of success. Goal setting is especially important for individuals in early recovery to gain confidence and remain on a path towards long-term sobriety (learn about our coaching services here: sober-coaching).  Here are some tips for setting and achieving your goals:



  1. Make your goals SMART: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-bound. This means that your goals should be clear and well-defined, with a measurable outcome and a timeline for achieving it. They should also be realistic and achievable, given your current resources and constraints. And they should be relevant to your overall objectives and aligned with your values and priorities.
  2. Set challenging but achievable goals: It’s important to stretch yourself and aim high, but it’s also important to be realistic and avoid setting goals that are too difficult or unrealistic. This can lead to frustration and a lack of motivation.
  3. Write your goals down: Research has shown that people who write down their goals are more likely to achieve them than those who don’t. Writing your goals down helps to make them more concrete and tangible, and it also helps you to clarify your thinking and stay focused on what you want to accomplish.
  4. Break your goals down into smaller, more manageable steps: Large goals can seem overwhelming and daunting, so it can be helpful to break them down into smaller, more manageable steps. This can help you to track your progress and stay motivated along the way.
  5. Create a plan and schedule for achieving your goals: Having a plan and schedule in place can help you to stay on track and stay focused on your goals. It can also help you to allocate your time and resources effectively and stay organized.
  6. Seek support and accountability: Achieving your goals can be challenging, and it can be helpful to have support and accountability along the way. This could mean seeking the support of a mentor or recovery coach, or sharing your goals with a friend or colleague who can help to keep you motivated and on track.
  7. Monitor and review your progress regularly: It’s important to track your progress and assess your progress regularly to ensure that you are on track to achieve your goals. This can help you to identify any challenges or roadblocks that may be preventing you from making progress, and it can also help you to make any necessary adjustments to your plan.
  8. Celebrate your accomplishments: Achieving your goals is a big accomplishment, and it’s important to take the time to celebrate your successes along the way. This can help to boost your motivation and confidence, and it can also help you to stay focused and motivated as you work towards your next goal.
  9. Set healthy process-oriented goals vs outcome-oriented goals: Process-oriented goals help individuals sustain their progress.  You might want to lose 20 pounds, so you go on a diet and attempt to lose the weight.  Once you lose the weight, you’ve met your goal, but how did you get there? You could get there by working out 5 times a week and eating healthy or you could get there by starving yourself until you lose the weight.  If your goal was only to lose the weight, you’ve achieved it in both scenarios, but one is much healthier than the other.  By setting a process-oriented goal to workout 5 days a week and eat healthy, once you lose the 20 pounds, you can continue to see results because you’re still working out and eating healthy. Process-oriented goals help you avoid the yo-yo effect, where you meet your goal and then stop doing the things that made you meet the goal, so you lose your progress.

In conclusion, goal setting is a powerful tool for personal and professional development, and it’s important to follow some best practices to increase your chances of success. By making your goals SMART, breaking them down into smaller steps, creating a plan and schedule, seeking support and accountability,  sticking to process-oriented goals, and monitoring and reviewing your progress regularly, you can increase your chances of achieving your goals and reaching your full potential.